Women's choice and Men's competiton

In the past, men and women had uncompromising beliefs about women. Women were dedicated to household work and confined to the four walls of the house. In the name of convention or tradition or culture, women were restricted to the limits of the house.  Men in India had suppressed women to such a lower and degrading condition and now their uprising had become inevitably unacceptable to the domineering men and highly acceptable to the meek men.

The scenario in this present generation is quite reverse because, women can go out, study, do jobs, earn money and make decisions. Women can be often seen unfettered during the day, night or sometimes at midnight as well. They are unabashed and stepping their feet in almost every field with flying colors and outperforming men. Occasionally, some educated and reliable women feel fettered by their parental control and care, feel that they lack freedom. Soon after their graduation, the women are asked to get married by request or force. To run away from these marriage trials and to have more freedom, some women prefer to embark on job hunt in cities, away from their villages and parents.

Staying in the hostels either for job search or for some course has brought women unlimited freedom to do whatever they wish. As they have become adults, few women feel that their parents are illiberal and clipping their wings. Hence, they choose to come to the nearby city and stay in hostels in the name of job search. Beloved search becomes faster than the job search in Ameerpet. Competition is always at the peak for the gorgeous women. An average beauty would also get a minimum of four men following. Whether a mentally mature female or an immature one, a female would be extremely egoistic, calculative, foresighted, shrewd and innocent (sometimes credulous) in choosing the male partner.  The choice is based on many parameters such as height, weight, color, background, caste, income, attitude, importance, money, bike, reliability, security etcetera.

 On the other hand, men have severe competition among themselves in search of a girl. An unflinching and uninterrupted follower who should be wise, rich, humorous and persuasive have more chances of getting the female partner.

Men have competition whereas women have choice in terms of choosing a partner.

A female choose carefully for her beloved with full of independence, because at the time of marriage these many parameters are unconsidered and impossible. She always loves according to her heart’s wish and gets married a person according to the parents’ wish/choice.  For that, she has many reasons. She is very careful and meticulous in all the det
ails when it comes to relationship with the opposite gender before marriage. She knows that the marriage is not in her hands it is undoubtedly in the hands of the parents and she always feels that parents would choose the best option for her. Many a time, it is successful and some other times it becomes failure but living together with the husband is inevitable for her until she loses all her patience and interest. And these days losing patience is very common, easy and early. After marriage, if a woman loses patience which means she may lose her husband or life or more than that or nothing at all.

A Male wants a female companion for physical comfort and she wants a male being for mental companion. For this relationship, both male and female has given the name called love. Both of them intends to use each other for their selfish gains but in the end, the one who is more involved in love would definitely suffer like hell. 

Depression is the first stage and suicide is the next stage in suffering, if the person has weak heart. Otherwise life would go on as he or she starts moving on in life with the reminiscences of love.

Hardly five percent out of hundred cases of love would lead to the marriage that too if the girl is defiant and dauntless.